It's Meme Time!

I found this meme at one of my new favorite bloggers site. Her answers we so raw and honest that I was moved to do it myself so here ya go:

3 names I answer to:

* Pookie (well, that's a given) -- I got this nickname from my T
* Chapmac -- I use(d) it in online virtual worlds = games. It's a combination of family surnames Chapman & McCallum (see heritage question below)
* Chappy -- A spin off of Chapman given to me back in colleh when I was a TKE

3 parts of your heritage:

* Scottish -- from my great grandfather on my fathers side
* Scottish -- from my great grandfather on my fathers mothers side
* Scottish (the remaining 1/4 is British) -- from my mothers grandparents

3 things that scare me:

* The intentional political & religious divide in this country
* Snakes -- hate them...hate them... hate them....hate them... hate them...
* Losing T -- No, not splitting up but when the day comes that one of us passes away

3 of your everyday essentials:

* Redken Clean Lift 07
* Black coffee -- 1/2 decaf & 1/2 full octane blended
* My Franklin-Covey Monarch Dayplanner (it is the glue that holds me together)

3 things you are wearing right now:

* A bronze v-neck Nautica tee-shirt
* Ratty no-name shorts I've had for too many years but can't part with
* Lacoste Pour Homme

3 of your favorite songs:

* A Love That Will Never Grow Old - Emmylou Harris
* Bizarre Love Triangle - New Order
* Mad World - Gary Jules

3 things about the opposite sex that appeal to you:

* Pride in appearance -- no matter the age or size any woman can be beautiful with a little effort
* The ability to be bitchy without being mean or cruel -- I LOVE bitchy women
* Nice tits -- I no desire to touch them but I love seeing them in a sweater or nice fitting top

3 things you want in a relationship (other than real love) :

* Loyalty
* Humor
* Honesty

3 of your favorite hobbies:

* Shopping -- clothes, home decor, books, groceries....so long as I can find a bargain
* Playing on the internet -- playing games, reading blogs, sending emails, doing research
* Decorating my home or garden

3 Places you want to go:

* San Francisco -- again & again...I never tire of this wonderful city
* Italy
* London

3 things you want to do before you die:

* Get my Masters and either teach, counsel, or work in Social Services
* Have a book published
* Meet some of my favorite bloggers in person and give them a big hug

3 ways that you are stereotypically a male:

* Put my hands down my pants as soon as I hit the couch (gotta protect the boys ya know)
* Pee standing up (99% of the time anyway) -- and I ALWAYS raise the seat
* Think about sex A LOT

2 truths and 1 lie (in any order):

* Worked in a male strip club, The Lemon Peel, and had a picture taken with Caroline Cossey aka Tula
* Hiked Mount Everest
* Drank awful champagne and smoked a joint with Bono and several lesser known band members in a limo back in the late 80's

3 people you would like to take this survey:

Anyone who is up to the challenge